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Chen Rafaeli's avatar

My Mom spent all her meager lunch money on books, when a girl. She was rightfully afraid of her Mom, my Grandma, and hid them under the bed. At some point Grandma found all these books. The reaction, usually severe, was a bit unexpected-she borrowed money and bought a bookcase.

That's why when I grew up I was already surrounded by tons of books, and since then, I consider it one of the most calming things.

Thank you for this very calming post.

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Joel J Miller's avatar

What a beautiful reflection. Thanks for sharing it.

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Katja's avatar

Patrice Lewis write occasionally about her home library of 5000+ books. (I guess they cut down somewhat when they moved about three years ago.)

Shipping a library (her daughter's) overseas: http://www.rural-revolution.com/2024/01/shipping-library.html

Building a library http://www.rural-revolution.com/2021/07/evolution-of-library.html

What does 5000 books look like? http://www.rural-revolution.com/2010/04/what-do-5000-books-look-like.html

(Her books tab: http://www.rural-revolution.com/search/label/books)

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Joel J Miller's avatar

This is great! Thanks for sharing.

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Holly A.J.'s avatar

I was from a low income family. People gave us their castoffs, including books. My father made floor-to-ceiling bookshelves around the house my parents built, and nearly every room had at least one bookshelf. Yet, in the books we did have, I read of other books we did not have, many of which I eventually searched out for myself to read.

Your likening the Biblical account of Creation to organizing a library reminded me of my two favorite verses on books, one humourous, one hopeful:

"But beyond these, my son, be warned: there is no end to the making of many books, and much study wearies the body." Ecclesiastes 12:14

"And there are also many other things Jesus did, which, if every one of them were written down, I suppose not even the world itself could contain the books that would be written." John 21:25

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Joel J Miller's avatar

I happen to love both those verses. Thanks for sharing them.

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David George Moore's avatar

Today's post (with picture) on building our home library can be found at www.twocities.org

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Joel J Miller's avatar

I love it. I’d recognize that Ante-Nicene, Post-Nicene Fathers collection anywhere.

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Duane Toops's avatar

I have competing impulses that can be hard to manage and difficult to navigate. I love books and I’m a minimalist. I look for things I can live without. Things I don’t need. Things I don’t use. I try to simplify. To keep condensing. But my bookshelves are close to sagging. Full and always under threat of breaking. I keep adding volumes, oblivious to the crash that is surely impending. All the while I keep looking for things I can live without. Things I don’t need. Things I don’t use. I try to embrace minimalism, to live simply, but I only know how to relate to books maximally.

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Joel J Miller's avatar

I get that tension. I am also something of a minimalist. Owning things is just more I’m responsible for—and there’s psychic weight attached to responsibilities. It’s a burden. It’s part of why I regularly cull my library, so I can enjoy my books more by easing the burden. It’s also why I shed more and more of other stuff—to make more mental space for the books I’ll surely bring in. It’s all a dance or a balancing act.

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Duane Toops's avatar

Exactly! Whenever I finish a book I ask myself "would I read this again?" If the answer is no it goes to my donate pile. My favorite used bookstore lets you trade in books for store credit, that encourages the process. But, like all book lovers the problem (if you can call it that) is that number of books on my shelf that haven't been read grows faster than the number of those that have 😂

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Joel J Miller's avatar

Yeah, I think we have to come to the point we regard that not as a bug but a feature of the bookish life.

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Duane Toops's avatar

Umberto Eco says that the unread books in a library are the most important, perhaps even the most powerful. I don't know if he's right. I don't know if it's true. But the thought that it might be is enough for me 😂

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Joel J Miller's avatar

Totally. A massive TBR pile, whole shelves even, is an expression of human hope and aspiration.

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Duane Toops's avatar

Perfectly said!

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Thaddeus Wert's avatar

"So, if God is bringing order to chaos, and nature is a book, then perhaps creation is simply God organizing his library."

I like that! Building my library is doing God's work. :)

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Joel J Miller's avatar

We are all subcreators.

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Ruth Gaskovski's avatar

"We scarcely ever consider the negatives; are there any worth seriously pondering? Nah." - My feelings exactly! To my great delight I just discovered a forgotten gift card to a bookstore and will be pondering how to solve the "too many books out there" problem by bring a few more into our home:)

Also, I will be starting a bookshop link on my substack via bookshop.org. Have you considered this for your site here? I just learned about this model, which connects readers with independent booksellers (rather than amazon).

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Joel J Miller's avatar

Thanks for the tip. I should look into that. I usually link to the publisher website, but I should check that out.

Also: Is there anything better than a forgotten gift card to a bookstore? It’s better than finding money because you might have other claims on the money—but you can only spend the card at the bookstore!

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Katja's avatar

As long as it's not one to Borders! :)

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Joel J Miller's avatar

LOL, yes. I used to work there, you know, back in the day. Sad they’re gone.

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Katja's avatar

Working at B&N was fantastic. The crew at my store became really good friends, for the most part, and we did stuff together socially as well. One of my best friends there was a girl named Nicole whose roommates worked at the big, flagship Borders store in downtown Chicago. (One of them was even manager of some sort.) Mind you, I'm a B&N girl, but that downtown Borders was special, with it's international press section, HUGE CD collection, etc. I had been to Nicole's apartment once, and there was plenty of teasing that went on with the "rivalry", of course, but a couple of months later, I decided to visit the downtown Borders and the roommate who was one of the managers there spotted me and, teasingly, called out "Hey you, what'cha doin' in my store!?" Oh, those were the days!

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Elise Boratenski's avatar

Love reading as always. So much resonated with me. One of the joys of our current home is the fact we have a library (sacrificed a separate dining room for it). It’s very loosely organized by genre at the moment (all our shelves are temporary measures until we can afford built in shelves), but I love the idea of creating a personal cannon/best books section. And I can see already how much it affects my kids just being around books all the time. Before they had the attention span and listen to a story, they pulled books off the shelves for fun. They were curious about the books themselves and how they ‘worked.’ And they know that books were something special, important, and constant for our family.

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Joel J Miller's avatar

There is so much value in growing up around books!

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Robert A Mosher (he/him)'s avatar

With my precious pocket money committed to my growing collection of Airfix and other plastic models of airplanes, ships, tanks, and cars I was devoted to the public library. I would check out the maximum number of books permitted focusing especially on science fiction and history. The scifi section I worked through from A thru Z and the started over again to catch new additions, history was often pursued chronologically and sometimes laterally as I read through all the available books on a single topic and compared the versions. Now some years retired, my wife and I share a general library of selected fiction, poetry, nonfiction, and reference works (alphabetical by author) as well as our respective working libraries located separately. Mine is mainly history shelved chronologically.

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Joel J Miller's avatar

I also shelve my history chronologically! I find that’s the best way to keep things straight in my mind.

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Brian Miller's avatar

Dadgummit, Joel. I had completely forgotten these past couple of decades about Oak Knoll Press. Now I am $85 poorer for the reminding.

Thanks,

Brian

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Joel J Miller's avatar

LOL. They produce some pretty amazing books!

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Susie's avatar

Reading this was a delight! I dream of devoting a whole room in my house to books -- this reminds me I just need to get creative with my small space and try!

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